Don’t we all come across people who seem to do nothing but complain? What is the right way to deal with such people? Mahatria emphasizes the importance of knowing what you can control in this scenario. ‘YOU’ are in your control, so work on that. Watch this video to develop your emotional maturity.
How to deal with a complaining person? First, stop complaining about complaining people! Because if you complain about a complaining person, how are you different from the other person? Each one of us live our life based on our own maturity levels. One of the greatest transformation that can ever happen to you, not sarcastically but compassionately, is to recognize that their maturity is only that much. I think I have already shared this, but I am repeating it.
Maybe you didn’t listen to it. Their maturity is only that much. The world reacts to you based on their maturity levels and you get affected based on your maturity levels. So you’re all the time hoping they will become matured so that they’ll stop complaining. They’re not in your control. There is something in your control. You become matured enough, like, thanks to everybody who said how to switch off the comments scrolling so that it will not disturb me.
And I’m glad that I realize I told myself, no, that’s not what you are going to do. What you are going to do is, you’re not going to let some… How can something outside of you affect you? To how many things in life are you going to hand over the keys of your happiness, your peace? If technology is going to be a part of me and it is people’s right to express themselves, and that is how they have been trained in social media.
When you are in social media, you don’t come to social media just to find out what others are saying. You come to social media because you want to say something. It’s an expression ground for people. So they are going to express. And with one realignment in the head, it’s not good. I can’t tell you how it’s feeling right now because it’s creating nothing! Absolutely nothing! Come on, it’s suddenly looking like design, like how in Instagram on one side, those bubbles of love is going on, like that this scroll is going on everywhere. Let it scroll.
Not even having a… In fact, it’s making me smile. Do it, come on, you know! Especially when I see for the fourteenth time somebody is typing, “How to overcome negative emotion.” and I’m thinking I’ve already answered it fifteen times, let it go! So you’re saying that if they get matured, they will stop complaining?
Sure enough, one day their day will come. Till then, if you can be mature, then others complaining will not have a bearing on you. It will not affect you at all. The world behaves according to their maturity, and you react or respond to the world based on your maturity levels. The world is not in your control, you are in your control. One notch upgrade your maturity and you will realize that, what is done by the world has no bearing in effect on you at all.