How to choose a spouse for my daughter?

Why do relationships fall apart? Is it because of economic status or conflicts in values? In an arranged marriage situation, should looks be given a high priority or should you examine the other family's outlook too? Whether it is an arranged marriage, or recruitment of a senior resource in an organisation - what criterion should be looked at? Mahatria gives a clear solution to this in this video.

"Most relationships fall apart eventually because there is conflict of values."

Why you should watch this video?

This video will help in minimising the risks in a relationship and save it from falling apart provided we implement this before getting into a formal agreement like that of a marriage or recruitment.

Who should watch this video?

Parents who are getting their daughter or son married, eligible bachelors and bachelorette will benefit from this video. Anyone who has to make a decision about recruiting a senior resource into their organisation will also gain an insight from this video.

Transcript

 

 

First find out whether there is respect for woman potential. Two, find out if there is compatibility of values. Most relationships, whether it is recruitment of senior people into an organization, or marriage, or partners coming together to build a business, most relationships that fall apart, fall apart eventually because there is conflict of values. So, you have to find out if there is compatibility of values.

And if you don’t find compatibility of values, I think that’s a much bigger bone of contention, then finding out whether “Kundali” matches or not, whether horoscope matches or not, whether stars match or not, whether height matches or not, whether size matches or not, values have to match, rest are details, looks will fade away with time. Poor can become rich and rich can become poor after one decision. Economic status can change with time. A family with great reputation can lose its reputation and the family without reputation can become the most reputed family.

It’s only a question of how you relate to the society over a period of time. All this can be changed. But deep inside his DNA, he or his family has no respect for womanhood or woman potential, and there’s conflict in values and values don’t change because you had a couple of conversations and evenings together. He doesn’t think this way, he doesn’t think this way and he will not think for the rest of his life this way. Examine this and then comes all the details. Correct this. This is futuristic.

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