How to manage daily stress
and daily impediments
that we go through, Mahatria?
You’re the greatest of all the creation of God.
What creates your daily stress?
Expecting a moment to be other than
what it is.
Expecting people to behave other than
how they are behaving…
Every time I project my opinion and my judgment
to a moment and feel
it should be other than how it is,
the residual effect is stress.
I know it’s cool
these days to use the word stress, stress…
everybody wants to use the word.
There’s nothing cool about it.
First, I want you to feel uncomfortable
about living a stressful life.
Or I’ll put it this way.
I want to stress the importance of
living a stress-free life
and I want you to be stressed
about your stress in life.
It doesn’t speak something great about you.
It’s a very immature way to approach life.
Especially because the question is ‘daily’.
See… occasional stress all of us will face.
Occasionally I will always encounter a situation
which I was not prepared for and
it can jerk me.
But if standing in a queue because
I live in a crowded city,
highly populated city is going to create stress in me
and every day you have to stand in a queue.
If during peak hours,
the traffic is going bumper to bumper and
hence it’s moving slow and
it’s creating stress for you.
This is something I have to deal with
every day of my life.
Any one of you is in public eyes,
you will be judged.
Irrespective of the intention with which
I’m creating this video,
some of you will get transformed,
some of you will get inspired…
and there will be a lot of cynical comments about it,
and I cannot do anything about it.
This is something I have…
the moment I’ve decided to put myself in public eyes,
I’ve set myself of for judgment by the world!
I must be prepared…
how can it create stress?
How can what I face on a day-to-day basis
create stress?
If I’m there in business at any given time,
I have to handle my list of outstanding payment
that has to be collected.
It’s part of job.
Every 10 people I create,
three are going to remain loyal to me and
seven of them are going to learn and
go to another organization, sell themselves.
But it’s part of creating an organization.
These are things that I deal with on a daily basis.
If I live in a place which is rain-prone,
I have to deal with the rain.
If I live in a place
where all four seasons exist,
there are going to be months every year
which is going to snow, it’s going to be cold.
There are places which is going to be hot
because summer is going to be hot.
And these are things that you face day after day,
month after month, year after year all through your life.
And what has a repetitive pattern should not create stress in you.
It simply means immature living.
Observe your patterns. Raise above these patterns.
Learn to smile.
I’m repeating…
You, projecting your opinion and
your judgment
to a moment of life and saying that
it should be other than how it is,
is the reason for all the stress in life.
The ability to flow with what is…
there is only peace in life.
‘What is’ is; ‘What is not’ is not…
and with that maturity
when you flow with life
the resultant effect will never be stress
but will always be peace.
Peacefully yours.
Thank you.
